In vogue for a while now, the new concept of Meetic, Meetic Affinity is all the rage. More than one million serious singles have registered in France (half male / half female), and the meter jumps. But this concept is effective?

When looking for a serious relationship - and I mean living together or family - the criteria of "selection" are very important. Many people misunderstand and go for a (e) partner with predefined criteria, such as physical appearance, humor, musical tastes. They look very often a person whose interests are the same as theirs. As if being a fan of Harley Davidson both enough to build a happy couple.

All relationships are experts agree on one thing: what makes the strength and beauty of a romantic relationship, the shared values.

Values ​​is what? These are the most important things of ourselves. Our character changes with time, our mood and our tastes too, but our values ​​never change. Very often the values ​​we are inculcated by the family, our relationships, in our childhood and youth.

Search "soul mate" is to actually find someone who has exactly the same values ​​as us. Not only values ​​close to ours. No. The same values ​​as us.

A simple example: Paul and Sylvie meet, fall in love and delight. For Sylvie, marriage is sacred. His family expects it to get married civilly and religiously before getting married. She thinks the same, and not just to please his family but because it is part of its values. Paul would think marriage is useless (except for taxes, but is much paxer). Basically, no worries, he may marry to please and Sylvie have peace with her in-laws.

In this example, the values ​​are not shared at all. Pretend, to compromise, do what the other wants are not a solid foundation for a couple. Oh, you say that everyone is like that. Couples who share exactly the same values ​​do not exist, and that the world works the way it should?

If you give yourself the trouble of finding someone who exactly matches your values. A person who has the same idea of ​​the most important things for you. I promise you that all tensions, all stress, all the problems you experienced in your previous relationships disappear.

And if more people took the trouble to seek it in a relationship, the divorce rate would drop significantly in France (it is estimated at 45% currently in France).

Let us return to Meetic Affinity:

Each person who registers on Meetic Affinity meets a compatibility profile - essentially based on its values. This profile is "confronted" with other profiles to determine who are the people best suited to it. With this list, everyone is free to contact persons with whom the power should go better.

Caution:
Have identical values ​​does not mean that you fall in love from the start, or even a day. Chemistry, conversation, hobbies, passions are also important, and among all those who have the same values ​​that you will require the sort! Each has its physical criteria, we do not deny.

How much Meetic Affinity?
Registration is free and allows you to complete a full profile, search for members according to affinities (values ​​close to or identical) and a contact person. Then, to contact more people, Meetic Affinity offers a subscription of 3, 6 or 12 months. The monthly fee varies between 19 and 39 € depending on the length.

If you are really difficult, you may need the 6-month subscription (29 € / month), but if not three months will be amply sufficient to make you meet a dozen people that match your values, and that serious consideration a common life.

Want to go somewhere else?
Here are some other dating sites growing, each in its particularity, to discover quietly (registration is always free and without obligation!)

• Easyflirt : first dating website incorporating a webcam service on the Chat! EastFlirt is a giant of the game with tens of millions of members.
• ChristianCafe : English site for Christian singles, largest database in the world.
  10 days free trial complete (no function blocked!).
• Zoosk : This one is 100% free (with paid options) but you can really contact people without paying!